Turn on your love light!
It turns out, the light therapy used to treat depression also gives a solid boost to men’s testosterone and libido. A morning blast of light stops melatonin production which allows testosterone production to increase, upward of three-fold. The end result is an enhanced sexual desire and a greater satisfaction with sex.
During game play you may land on the "You Are The Taskmaster" square. If you answer the question correctly, you become "The Taskmaster" temporarily and have power over your opponent to do an immediate task of your own creation.
Bare as you dare on the balcony could be an immediate task. Let your imagination run wild.
If you win the game you become the Taskmaster and your opponent (slave) must obey your wishes as you cash in your Slave Hours. The anticipation builds as you plan the task making the final event even more exciting! Bike Naked Task.
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Nothing more calming than a walk in the countryside.
After the heart pounding and blissful joy of a new relationship has waned, take these steps to keep the fire burning:
1. Create an amazing moment, unexpectedly. Do something thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise to it: a loving note tucked into a pocket or purse describing what sexy thing you’re going to do to them tonight, meet for a last minute lunch during the week and go “commando,” send a revealing playful selfie in the middle of the day. Thoughtful surprises will put a smile on your partner’s face and bring you closer together.
2. Communicate honestly about your sex life. Learn what pleases your partner sexually. Make it clear that their pleasure is your pleasure. Teach your partner what you like. Be considerate in your discussion, remember, you’re more than lovers, you’re also best friends; communicating on a friendship level means always choosing your words and actions with respect and care and always approaching one another in an open and honest way.
3. Boost lasting love with sexual novelty. When things get predictable and routine, there is not going to be as much of a hormonal, neurotransmitter reaction; and arousal is lessened. While you don't have to break out the whips and chains, a little novelty can increase anticipation, which means that more hormones are secreted. Try making a sexy video together. The time it takes setting up the camera and planning what you are going to do in the video is excellent foreplay. The result is hotter, more thrilling sex, bonding you closer together.
4. Intimacy is more than just sex. Touching in sexy ways outside the bedroom—a squeeze here, a massage there—is a nice little reminder that you are in life together. It’s important to remember that intimacy doesn’t just occur in the bedroom. Set aside special times to be intimate with one another, like cooking together, but ramp it up by doing it in the nude, setting aside times to give each other massages, reading to one another, really get the juices flowing and do something daring together like going to a nude beach/resort if you haven’t done that before, etc. In this hectic world, it’s all too easy to become like ‘business’ partners or roommates.
5. Get the chemicals of love flowing. There are many brain chemicals that go into the feeling of love and attachment. The hormone Oxytocin can promote bonding and trust with your partner. Oxytocin is enhanced by watching romantic movies together, holding hands, cuddling, and it skyrockets at orgasm. Women usually have more Oxytocin than men, but according to one study, a man’s level of Oxytocin goes up 500 percent after making love. Being too busy to make love pushes couples apart. Do something together that reminds you what butterflies feels like.
Play Slave Hours!
An apple a day may keep the doctor away but these five foods will keep your sex life active.
Broccoli contains a high vitamin c content and has been associated with an improved female libido. Vitamin C boosts blood circulation to organs and well, we know where that helps. You can eat it raw, sautéed or cooked as a side dish or in your salad, it delivers the same benefit. Smear broccoli all over your body and watch the fireworks go off! Well, maybe not.
Watermelon is about 92 percent water but the remaining 8 percent is loaded with vital nutrients for sexual health. Researchers at the Texas A&M Fruit and Vegetable Improvement Center, yup that’s a real research center, reported finding in 2008 that watermelon has ingredients that delivered Viagra-like effects to the human body's blood vessels and could even aid in increasing libido. Watermelon contains a phytonutrient called citrulline, which the body converts to arginine, an amino acid that boosts nitric oxide levels in the body, which relax blood vessels in the same way a medicine like Viagra performs. Hey, watermelon man!
Black Raspberries matter, both the berries and the seeds, for getting you “in the mood.” They have an abundance of phytochemicals which enhances both the libido and sexual endurance. Tonight is date night? Consume 10 black raspberries or a tablespoon of seeds a few hours before and rock-on!
Almonds are nutrient-dense and rich in several trace minerals that are important for sexual health and reproduction, such as zinc, selenium, and vitamin E. Zinc helps enhance libido and sexual desire. Ok, I’ve got to say it. Go nuts for sex!
Arugula, since the first century, has been regarded as an arousal aid for sex. Current research reveals that the trace minerals and antioxidants packed into dark, leafy greens are essential for our sexual health because they help block absorption of some of the environmental contaminants thought to negatively impact our libido.
An arugula salad sprinkled with sliced almonds and a bowl of black raspberries for dessert? Oh the humanity!
August goes out like a lion. The 28th of August is Go Topless Day. Tired of covering up your boobs while men can comfortably walk around bare-chested? The 28th is the day to set the girls free! Over 60 cities around the world have "Go Topless" rallies scheduled. Women in the USA have 31 cities to air their um, points; France has 4 cities, Canada 3, Italy 3, and many more throughout the world.
The incredible Burning Man annual event begins on the 28th and runs to September 5th in the Nevada desert. Get together with 60,000 of your closest friends to celebrate life, love, music, art and freedom.